Tuesday, January 31, 2006
New Old Friends
I had breakfast at Panera with Joanne. She was so sweet and genuine. We chatted over coffee and pastries, it was heavenly. I feel like we could have talked all afternoon, she made me feel so comfortable. Lovely lady that Joanne. And she has fabulous red hair. I was green with envy.
For lunch I met with Vashti and Gretchen. I felt like I was amongst old friends and we were just getting together again after being apart for awhile. Vashti was full of life and so amazingly friendly. Her two daughters were just precious and I was so lucky to be able to meet her three nephews also. She had quite a tribe with her, I felt right at home.
I have "known" Gretchen for a couple years now through a message board that we both visit and I have wanted to meet her from the moment I met her. Does that make sense? She was gentle and sweet and completely amiable. (I've been dying to use the word "amiable" for a long time and meeting Gretchen gave me the perfect opportunity) She also wore a most fabulous pair of sparkling pink earrings. I could have chatted with her three little boys for hours, they were simply charming.
This was a day completely worth plucking my eyebrows for. If you knew how much I hate tweezing, you would know how huge that is. These three ladies did not disappoint and I was so thrilled with my very first real-life-meets-the-internet day. Also, none of them turned out to be axe murderers, which is a bonus.
Monday, January 30, 2006
This Little Piggy Cried Wee Wee Wee, All the Way Home
Tuesday, January 24, 2006
Peace Out.
We have arranged for the care of the children. The two little partners in crime are spending the rest of the week with their cousins. Together, they make up infamous Four Muskateers. The three oldest have the ball and chain of school around their little traveling ankles and have to stay in town. But staying with Oomah* and Doopah** makes up for having to continue with classes and homework and boring stuff like that. Little Gemster comes with us.
And where are we going? On an airplane. The last time I flew I was a mere 15 years old and was headed to sunny Florida. This time, I am not headed to sunny Florida, but to somewhere just as fun, and I am bringing along a very very active little seven month old. A seven month old who has mastered climbing the stairs and is now flirting with letting go of furniture while standing next to it. I think she freaks herself out a bit: "Look at me, I'm standing next to the couch. Am I awesome or what? Wait, whattheheck? I'm letting go! Wow, look, I'm awesomer than I thought! Ohmygosh, this is scary, MOM...HELP!" and plop, she falls right on her squishy little butt. Yeah, I don't think there is much room for that on the airplane, so we are praying that she will sleep a lot. Benedryl as a back up.
We'll be back late late late on Sunday night. Don't wait up.
*This is Nate's mom. The German word for Grandma-Oma became toddlerized by our oldest when he was a wee lad and the resulting difficult to spell nickname has stuck.
**This is Nate's Dad. This is the masculine partner to Oomah. It is sometimes shortened to a more casual "Doop".
Monday, January 23, 2006
Why I've been scarce.
A quick update. My grandpa had triple bypass surgery on Saturday and is doing well. I'm disappointed that I haven't been able to visit, but I'm sure they wouldn't appreciate a stomach virus being introduced to the ICU.
Arrrg!
Friday, January 20, 2006
Do you speak toddler?
- "Shopping shoes". Or for short, "Shoppers". Noelle knew from the very beginning that there was something special about a sparkly pair of shoes.
- "Boochees". This one is HUGE. We have blankets for wrapping up in when we are cold, but "boochees" what our thumb suckers hold up by their faces while they suck their thumbs. If you have seen it, you know what I mean. Hilarious.
- "Boe-Jay". This is Jack's interpretation of a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Which he loves almost as much as "Cee-yo". (cereal)
- "Nakee". If you don't have clothes on, you are Nakee.
- "take a tubby" You have to be Nakee to Take a Tubby.
I know you aren't supposed to repeat thing back to them the wrong way, but it's just so doggone cute! Only now we have our own little language around here. Please, assure me that we aren't the only ones who talk toddler all the time.
Thursday, January 19, 2006
The Unforseen
As I turned the corner on to my street I caught my breath. My heart jumped into my throat, my hand went to my heart, and I breathed the words "Oh dear Jesus, no!" out loud to myself and my empty car. The trucks were parked in the middle of the street, right in front of our house. My pulse pounded, I could feel the panic rising. I didn't see smoke, so I immediately thought of all the other horrible possibilities. As I came closer I could see a fireman going up the stairs in my neighbors house, no smoke, everything looked under control. Further information proved that it was a gas leak, and not a serious one. The kids crawled back into their beds and tried to go to sleep despite the flashing red lights on their walls.
I was struck by the quickness in which my heart leapt into high gear. By how quickly life could have changed. My mind now turned to my Grandparents. Early yesterday morning we had news that my Grandpa had been taken to the hospital. It is definitely his heart, they are running tests to see what exactly. Life took a turn for them that morning. How could Grandma have suspected that this is the path her day would carry her on as she made breakfast for him while Grandpa did chores? Did Grandpa have any idea that he would be laying in a hospital bed that evening? I know my Mom couldn't have guessed that she would be spending the night with my Grandma an hour away. And what of today? Tests? Surgery? More tests?
Life is so precious. I forget that sometimes. I take it for granted and I figure that things will always be the way they are. But they won't. Most of the time I have a hard time looking past the now, the day in day out stuff. But life is all about change. Change for the better, change for the worse, we never know what is coming.
Wednesday, January 18, 2006
January. Bleh.
So to bring a bit of sunshine into this January 18th, I give you one of my favorite summertime photos. Close your eyes and dream of July.
Monday, January 16, 2006
Laundry status 1/16

I've been laundering constantly for the past week and I am still up to my armpits in dirty clothes. I discovered part of the problem when I found all the dresses Camryn
"tried on" before church were in the hamper. I guess it's easier to throw them in there than to hang them back up. My children are using the laundry pile as a quick fix while cleaning their rooms, which explains the plastic dinosaurs I found hiding under a pair of jeans.
I go though phases of sorting and not sorting. Sometimes I just cram everything from not-so-whitish socks to red sweatshirts all in the same load. It doesn't matter if you are a towel or a lacey pair of underwear, you are riding the tub of suds together. Then other times, I become compulsive sorter. Today, I sorted. Camryn has been my star sorter. I taught her early, and she prides herself on knowing which pile to put the white pajamas with pink stripes in. Since she has been at school for two years now, I am passing her torch to Caedmon, who learned how to sort last week. He was very proud of himself. I hope I'm not breaking any child labor laws by making my four year old do laundry.....
And so today, our family room floor is littered with piles of jeans, colors, whites, towels, and darks. I guess segregation isn't a bad thing when it comes to laundry.
Do you sort your laundry? What are your "sorting categories"?
Do you feel sorry for me because I am out of fabric softener?
Sunday, January 15, 2006
29
- Pancakes. We had a birthday dinner at my parents' house, and I requested pancakes.
- Ham. (Mom made ham too, I guess for the people who don't love pancakes all by themselves.)
- Steaks. Last night, Nate's parents made me a delicious steak dinner. I'm drooling now.
- Pecan Pie. Last night's dessert.
- An "African-American" bracelet that Noelle made me with her new beads. (She's totally into beads right now)
- Gemma slept all night last night. Thank you Gemma, that was the best gift you could have given me.
- Cherry Chip Cake with Cream Cheese frosting
- We made a trip to the ER with Gemma. Thought she had a bum arm, but she's fine.
- I made a pot of coffee this morning before church and didn't have any until after church.
- I wore my favorite Blindside shirt. And some fuzzy pink socks.
- Caedmon and Camryn went to a birthday party. When he was getting out of the car, Caedmon fell into a snowbank.
- My dream birthday present would be to sleep until I wake up on my own.
- Nate made scrambled eggs for breakfast.
- I thought thinking of 29 things would be easy but it's hard.
- I don't think I feel like I'm 29, but I can't tell if I feel older or younger.
- I wore my favorite black and pinks shoes to church this morning.
- Jack sang happy birthday to me and it was adorable.
- I went ahead and had a second piece of cake.
- Just now, I ate the last two pieces of pecan pie. I think I'm going to wish they were there tomorrow when I get hungry for something sweet.
- I'm thinking about cutting my hair.
- I wish the season premiere of 24 wasn't on my birthday.
- My birthday is my favorite day, and I milk it.
- I still have those pink fuzzy socks on, I love them.
- I wish I was in bed right now.
- Track seven on Tyler's Spongebob CD makes me laugh out loud. "The best time to wear a striped sweater, is all the tiiiiiiime."
- I secretly fed lots and lots of ham scraps to my Dad and Mom's dog.
- We played a game of Apples to Apples this afternoon. That is a fun game.
- I think I am going to start collecting belt buckles.
- I'm so sad that my birthday is over.
Friday, January 13, 2006
Is this a Photo Blog?
Another Christmas Post?
Which is what I am doing today. I picked up my Christmas photos the a few days ago and thought I would share. Every year, on Christmas Sunday, I make the kids line up on the couch for a picture before church. I usually take way too many shots, but I ADORE them because you end up getting a feel for the moment when you look at all the pictures in a row. One year they played pass-the-baby-Jack. I had four pics of the group with each kid taking a turn holding the baby. But I LOVE this year's pictures. I laugh every time I look at them. Ahhh, can you feel the brotherly love?



Thursday, January 12, 2006
Distracted
But today I think I will go a little more serious.
I think the adjective to describe me lately is "distracted". I find distraction creeping into every area of my life. If you look around my house, you will see tell-tale signs. The pot of coffee that I started to make, I poured in the water and started to grind the beans, but I was interrupted before I could turn the pot on. There is the lineup of laundry baskets, half of them are empty, but I never got back to the rest of them. I am reminded of the painting I started on our bedroom wall. Beautiful shiny silver script of love poems and quotes. I was very pregnant at the time (with Jack I think) and I couldn't get down on the floor on my belly to write the last few lines. Ummm, yeah, that's still not done. The girls' dressers are primed, but never painted. The Christmas decorations are put away, but the living room is not put back together. I could go on and on.... You've all probably read "If You Give A Mom A Muffin." It made the email loop a while ago. They wrote that about me. (at least I'm pretty sure they did) But it goes deeper than stuff around the house.
It has spilled over into my identity as a mother. I am a MOTHER not a house keeper. Yes, I need to run an orderly place around here and at least keep the toilets scrubbed and the kids fed. But what about reading books, and dressing up like ninjas, and doing puzzles? Why is it so hard for me to join Tyler in a little two player on the Nintendo, to be a part of his world? Why don't I let Noelle use her Easy Bake Oven? If I was honest, it's because it's too much work for ME. How do I get so wrapped up in stupid stuff that I have to try to think really hard to remember if I hugged Camryn today. Have I let my "duties" distract me from a deeper relationship with my kids?
But the area that scares me the most is my relationship with Christ. Have I become distracted here too? I think maybe I have. Sometimes the daily stuff distracts me from spending more time in the Word. I can pray while I'm doing dishes, but my mind easily wanders to my to-do list. I think the biggest distraction for me is works. Sometimes I just get this list of things in my head that I THINK I SHOULD be doing to make God happy. It's almost like I am trying to earn my way into favor with Him. Like I'm buying a palace in heaven with my good deeds. I get distracted by legalism and I forget that He loves me. He saved me by His grace and He just loves me. The more I love Him, the more I will WANT to do the things that please Him.
I want to get back to the basics. A simple, orderly home. A family who is confident of my love because of the time I spend with them. And most importantly, an undistracted love for my Savior.
41"Martha, Martha," the Lord answered,
Wednesday, January 11, 2006
Dance like no one is watching?
http://www.military.com/Video/050303_DanceTime.wmv
And go check out Hannah's blog, she takes pretty pictures.
Packrats
- A Hot Wheels car
- one Fairytopia strappy sandal
- a dirty sock
- a rock
- a wadded up Sunday School paper
- Polly herself
- Some sort of bean bag thing one of them made at VBS this year.
Where's the lipstick? The mirror? The cute little wallet? Apparently they didn't get the memo about what to put in a purse.
Some haunting questions.
- Where were GI Joe and Barbie going in Barbie's convertible and why was their dog driving?
- How many thousands of googly eyes did Caedmon and Jack dump out on their floor?
- How long has this shirt been wadded up behind Noelle's dresser?
- What in the world are Polly's clothes made out of that they can stretch so much?
- Why am I jealous of the wardrobes of the My Scene dolls?
- What in the world am I going to discover when I clean the boys' room?
Tuesday, January 10, 2006
An unexpected concert
So we knocked out everyone's homework and chores, shoveled some supper into our mouths and ran out the door. It took a little shuttling, the Beast is in the shop (that's a whole other post) so we had to figure out how to transport eight people with a five seater. The xB is great. Love it. I took the younger four to my parents and then came back and picked up Nate, Tyler, and Noelle.
Tyler plays the trombone. We have heard him practice a few times. You just can't get the whole picture from listening to your kid practice their instrument solo. He does a great job, but there's not much melody in the trombone section. Those fifth graders put on a great show, seven songs and I wasn't even bored. Seriously, I wasn't. One thing I remember from my own fifth grade band experience was the foot tapping. And guess what, it's still there. And it's contagious. Tonight I found myself tapping right along with them.
Good times.....
Monday, January 09, 2006
The mind of a four year old
Gabe (my college freshman little brother) comes in the front door and greets Caedmon (4) "What's up?"Caedmon "What does that mean?"
Gabe "It means how are you." (thinks to himself, "Wait, not really. Oh well.")
Caedmon "Oh"
A few days later, Gabe once again greets Caedmon with his usual "What's up?"
Caedmon (without hesitating) "Good"
Sunday, January 08, 2006
Shoes I have loved in 2005

I apologize for the quality of the photo, but I used hubby's camera phone.
Let me tell you about each of my lovelies.
Ok, front and left is a little brown corduroy slip on I just bought this fall. Payless Shoes. $1. I am not even kidding. One little dollar. And I love them.
Behind that is my running shoes. New Balance 680's. Took a few tries to find one I liked, but these babies carry me through my morning run quite well.
To the right of the 680's we have a fun little black pump with some pink stitching. Target? Payless? I don't remember. They look great with jeans though.
To the right again is a little brown sandal. Walmart. I just want to gobble them up. Aren't they fun?
To the right, a cream ballet slipper. I love them, but I wear them without socks. The inside is really gross and dirty if I wear them to your house, I will probably not take them off at the door. Either that or I will disown them and wear someone else's shoes home.
The red ones. I have had these for a long time, I think I will keep them forever. I bought them at Walmart. They are red, what else can I say?
The pink and black tweed pair at the top are my most recent purchase. I bought them and had nothing to wear them with. So I went shopping for new clothes. I had to have them. I love them. I wear them too much.
There you have it. I am such a loser, I arrange my shoes for photography. But it's easier than taking pictures of the kids. The shoes don't make funny faces at the camera. I neglected to put my flip flops in the photo. Pulling the flip flops out of the back of the closet would just make me long for summer. I'll just have to do a "Shoes I Have Loved in the Summer" sometime in August.
Woo Hoo, bring on the Memes
Four jobs you have had in your life
1. Picking up rocks from a field. Why? So they don't ruin the machinery.
2. Waitress at Country Kitchen. I was the worst waitress EVER. I'm not kidding.
3. Waitress at Godfather's Pizza (this was better, just worked behind the counter, the customers got their own drinks. PHEW!)
4. Mom to all these kids
Four movies you could watch over and over
1. Romeo+Juliet The weird psychedelic one. Come on, you know you love the fish tank scene.
2. Emma
3. The Notebook Wahhhhh. Bring out the Kleenex.
4. Sense and Sensibility So noble.
Four places you've lived
1. My Parents house
2. University housing in Grand Forks, North Dakota
3. The Ghetto (in Grand Forks North Dakota)
4. Here
Four TV shows you love to watch
1. What Not to Wear
2. Good Eats
3. Spongebob
4. The Biggest Loser
Four places you've been on vacation
1. Out West
2. Down South
3. Up North
4. DesMoines, IA
Four websites you visit daily
1. Homestarrunner, But what is UP?! Nothing new for over a month. I hope it's not over...
2. Bloglines brings me all your blogs. (yeah I switched, I like bloglines better than Google)
3. A message board for moms with more than 5 kids
4. A message board for runners
Four of your favorite foods
1. Pancakes
2. Tacos
3. Red Velvet Cake
4. Chicken Enchiladas
Four places you'd rather be right now
1. Taking a nap
2. Reading
3. Shopping
4. Sunbathing on a beach
Four Bloggers you are tagging
(I'm hoping to wake up some sleeping bloggers here)
1. Shawn
2. Bill
3. Haleigh
4. Everyone else. If you are reading, you are tagged.
Thursday, January 05, 2006
Lunch with Nate
*I only ate 1/3 of my burrito and he ate the WHOLE thing. My remaining 2/3's is in the fridge right now, waiting for me. Oooh, I can't wait.
Wednesday, January 04, 2006
Putting it all away
I always have an inner debate with myself whether or not to leave out the more "wintry" decorations so the place doesn't seem so stark. This year I opted for no. I have a history of not really getting those last few trailers put away with the rest of the stuff and then we have little mittens hanging on the wall in June. My mother-in-law has gotten us each a little wooden mitten with our name on them, she ends up having to place a new order with the mitten lady every other year. I think she deserves a discount since she single handedly keeps the woman in business.
As I'm looking around the living room, I am extra aware of every nail hole and scuff on the wall. Maybe sometime in the next year we need to switch colors. Any ideas on what would go with tired rose colored carpet, a green love seat, and a purpleish couch? And Nate, don't you have some business trips coming up?
Tuesday, January 03, 2006
Linkage
Back to school
The oldest two were having a hard time falling asleep last night. I guess two weeks of no bedtimes was a habit hard to break in just one day. Everyone was a little slow this morning, but after a bowl of Cheerios, they changed gears and were early to the bus stop.
Things I will miss:
- People sleeping all over the house. No, we didn't have house guests, we all just crashed where we wanted to. Usually there was someone on every couch and a couple of kids in bed with me.
- Christmas food
- Staying in our pajamas all day.
- Having Nate home.
Things I will not miss:
- Having Nate home. (just kidding!)
- Constant Nintendo
- no bedtimes
- Kids on a 24 hour sugar high
It seems that I spoke too soon in regards to Gemma's 12 hour sleep plan. I suppose I was asking for it though, proclaiming her angelic night time sleep habits to the whole internet. And so she did NOT sleep 12 hours last night. She does have a well baby check up today, maybe I will ask for a prescription for Ambien. For her.
I have high hopes for this day. Hopes of getting a whole lot of something done to make up for all of the nothing we have done the last two weeks. I let you know how it goes......
Happy routine to you all!! Hooray!
Monday, January 02, 2006
Overachiever

Gemma has a new trick and we are quite surprised.
She is six and a half months old. Babies aren't supposed to be pulling up to furniture at six and a half months old. Didn't you read the manual Gemma?!! This new trick has created a new problem. She doesn't nap anymore. Here is a visual for you.

We lay the little Precious down in her crib for a nap, and she stands up. Then she is stranded because she hasn't learned how to sit back down yet, the crying starts and there is no sleeping. The positive side of this whole thing is that she is sleeping wonderfully at night, sometimes up to 12 hours. The girl is exhausted. Infact she is asleep right now, probably for the night, because she did not nap. All. Day. Long.
Notice the little Glo Worm in her crib. Isn't that cute? I think she hates it but WE like it.
Sunday, January 01, 2006
Our little New Year's baby

Today is Noelle's birthday, she is nine. NINE! I can't believe it. I can still see her toddling around the house with a little fountain of blonde hair spouting out of a rubberband on the top of her little two year old head.
Noelle was born during a season of winter in our lives. We were living in North Dakota, the state of perpetual blizzards. Over five hundred miles away from family, in a tiny little university apartment, we waited for our baby. We were young and poor and excited to meet our second child. A week overdue, but perfectly timed, she was a New Year's baby and was showered with gifts from all around town. Her ride home from the hospital was a free ride in a white limousine, and we didn't even have the cash to tip the poor driver.
Little Welly was a ray of sunshine in a bleak time in our lives. She is a ray of sunshine in the bright times too. One day, she will be the best cheerleader/lifeguard/pet shop owner that this world has ever seen. Happy Birthday to our little optimist.
